The Art of Being Open
Dear friends,
It’s funny how much we respect expertise in many fields, but most people are somewhat hesitant when that expertise extends to our own lives.
Most people are inspired by the abilities of a great martial artist. The relationship between the black belt and his sensei or Grandmaster is one of deep service, respect, and training. Martial arts is a wonderful thing, but how much more wonderful to get such training, dedication, and devotion to establishing excellence in life? No one should climb a dangerous mountain without a guide. One ought not to fly a plane without hours of training from an experienced pilot. Yet, interestingly, in our own lives, we are not inclined to allow anyone else to tell us what’s best for us, or to really open ourselves to learning in a deep intense way like those other fields demand.
This is not in the slightest to suggest shirking our own responsibilities and turning things over to someone else. The sensei can only show you the way and help you work on your weaknesses. He cannot do the work for you, nor would he even want to if it were possible. My teacher, when asked what the best yoga posture was, said, "That one which enables you to stand on your own two feet!"
If you are reading this letter, you are likely aware you have areas within yourself that need work. We all do or would not have incarnated here. When one is pointed out, the best response is “Thank you” and not, "No way. That’s not me!” After all, seeing them is the first step to overcoming them.
Finding a spiritual teacher is a gift beyond compare. A good teacher can know what is next for you and nudge you in the right direction. I myself have a long list of things to work on in myself, and they obviously cannot each be the top priority! A true skilled mentor can tell what is next for each of us. Like a good massage therapist, a spiritual guide can find a tight spot or knot in your consciousness and work hard on it. It hurts, but it hurts so good! :-)
It is said in India, “When the student is ready the teacher appears.” May we each nurture the desire to perfect ourselves sufficiently to draw the help that is needed to ascend such a tricky mountain path.
Blessings,
David G., manager
For the staff at East West