Well, tricky fellow that I am, I will say "both." But perhaps more of an explanation is needed, as there is much confusion about both the notion of ego and about the oft heard (and correct) idea that it needs to be overcome.
I Don't Believe in The Same God You Don't Believe In
A friend of mine said this to an atheist years ago, and I have always appreciated it. We all have images of God/Spirit/The Divine. It's just how the human mind works. Besides, it's a lot easier to feel devotion for something we can relate to, than feel the heart swell open when contemplating The Cosmic Ground of Being. I am somehow more moved when I look into Yogananda's eyes! :-)
Perception Is Everything
The pain in our lives is caused by our misperceptions. The mind naturally goes to extremes when we hear things like this, but let's stay in the realm of the infinitely more common for now. The “Do you mean to tell me...?!” questions can come later while we first deal with realistic things that affect us every minute of every day.
We Need To Be Ready To Change
What is the True Purpose of Prayer?
Most spiritual traditions make it quite clear that Spirit/God/The Divine knows better than we do what is best for us. That is why it pays to ask for Divine Guidance. But if that is the case, why bother to pray? Are we letting Spirit know something that is not already known? And if not, what’s the point of the attempted communication?
What is True Humility?
The True Meaning of Easter
I Want It My Way!
A friend shared that she had a willful six-year-old son. One morning he was quite anxious for the day to get started, but when he awoke he realized it was still the middle of the night. Not to let such a small impediment stop him, he went to the top of the stairs and yelled for the whole world to hear, “I want it to be day!!” Suffice it to say, the rotation of the earth did not accelerate to meet his demand.
What are We Protecting?
The Role of the Mind on the Path
Too Many Toys
I was recently singing a chant with the words, "I am determined no more to want to play,” at a spiritual gathering and thought, “Boy, if a new person is here, they might not get what that means.” Then I thought, “Hey wait a minute! Do I fully get what that means?” As I thought about it, I realized my next email to my East West friends was formulating… :-)
What is True Freedom?
Humor Opens the Heart
Wow. What a spate of not-the-best news these days. Ukraine? Iran? Venezuela? ICE? Martians attack New York City? (O.K.—maybe I made that one up, but at this point I wouldn't be surprised…?) Time for a little levity. Here are some of my favorite cute stories from East West that I have collected over the years. A smile on the face is often a cure for what ails you…
God's Kitten
The Truth About Elephants
Life is a Science Experiment
How To Quiet That Critical Inner Voice
Almost everyone has inner voices that are unhelpful. They say things that are false but that bring us down. These voices deplete our energy and make it almost impossible to feel the Joy of Spirit. But there is good news! As powerful as they are, they have an Achilles heel, and if you learn what it is you can actually defeat them somewhat easily.
Stop It!
If you are anywhere near my age, you probably remember Bob Newhart. He was a comedian who often played psychiatrists, and this skit involves him in that profession. A woman walks into his office and says, "My friend tells me you offer therapy for $5 and that it only takes a few minutes. She says your work is great. I don't see how that can be, but for $5 I'd like to give it a shot."
The Goal is Constant Steady Progress
Reframing
I have a friend who has a great attitude about going through this world. He says to himself, "I assume that, over the course of my life, I will lose $20,000 to people either taking advantage of me, doing something not quite right, negligence on my part, etc. So when I suffer a financial loss I just assume it is part of the $20,000 that has already been accounted for."



















